It’s a hazy, lazy day on Cape Cod. I’m enjoying a quiet holiday with my family, minus one son who couldn’t make it home this year. Normally we go to a barbecue followed by a fireworks display, but we decided, after about 20 years of that tradition, and because the event has become crowded in recent years, that we would enjoy a private lobster dinner at home for a change. Maybe we’ll even watch the live t.v. coverage of the Boston Pops performing on the Esplanade this time.